FAQs

What if I can't make it?
That's okay! We understand that this was scheduled last-minute but we wanted to invite you because you are a special part of our lives. We'd love it if you could at least leave us a video message here. Or you can email us a message at jen.adelynn@gmail.com or alice.adelynn@gmail.com, or both!

Can't I come in person?
Unless you're our officiant Ben or witnesses Niho and Tomoyo, no, do not come in person. Not even in your car. Not even as a "joke." We're taking COVID-19 concerns very seriously. It would break our hearts if your being here in person put any of us at risk. I promise we'll celebrate in person in the months/years to come when things are safer!

What if I want to test or troubleshoot my setup to make sure I can see both the ceremony and reception?
We are having a test session at 1pm Eastern on November 8th using the same links on the details and schedule page.

How will toasts work?
We will unmute only the speaker giving the toast. At the end of their speech, we will unmute for applause, and then mute again for the next speaker.

Can I give a toast?
Only Ian, Adam, and Fey are giving toasts. You may leave us a video for our virtual guestbook or email using the links above.

Trickssi, what do you want me to call you during your wedding?
I know that I ask you to call me "Trickssi" in convention and cosplay spaces and if that's how I introduced myself to you, please feel free to continue using that name. However, my "irl" name will also be used throughout the formal parts. If I introduced myself to you with my "irl" name, you can certainly call me that during the wedding. All I ask is that you NOT call me by my "irl" name in online or irl spaces outside of the wedding or private messages! Please respect our privacy. We ask you not to share it with anyone who is not invited. By inviting you, we are assuming we can trust you with this information. Thanks for your understanding!

What if I would like to talk with someone else in another breakout group?
Due to the sheer volume of guests we anticipate, we ask that you arrange private chats outside of the Zoom platform.

Will the Zoom call be recorded?
We will record as much of the Zoom as our computers have space for.